Why do the innocent die?


Anonymous asked you:
How, why, would a “loving” God let innocent people die?


I answered:

Thank you for this question! We have all lost loved ones, and this surely is one of life’s toughest questions. Please let me answer it to the best of my ability. All I ask from you is a patient and open-mind.

There are so many terrible things in this life, and death is one of them. However, I do believe that there is a simple reason for God allowing death in this world: nature. This is the natural course of things. Even God’s own followers die. They die by murder, disease, and poverty, the same as everyone else. In this world, nothing is perfect. Everything is running down and getting worse. How could God let this happen? Well, it’s a complicated question, of course. We can start with a few statements:

  1. If this world is perfect, there would be no reason for death to exist. 
  2. It would be chaotic and destructive to put immortality into the hands of imperfect people.
  3. If there is a God, then there is a life beyond this one. Therefore, He is able to still be loving because there is immortality beyond this hard life. 

Having said these statements, it becomes apparent that immortality in this world would actually be negative, not positive. However, God has still provided an end result for the repentant. Someone who repents is simply one who follows Jesus as God, their Savior who died for their sins. Because Jesus took the punishment for all the evil you and I have done, we can have a personal relationship with Him. Let me briefly explain: 


A good judge will never turn a blind eye to evil. Retribution must always be made for every evil act. So God made a way to still be a perfect judge and still allow us to have a relationship with Him forever.

Having said these things, we can now examine the state of human beings, and whether they should get into a perfect dwelling without Jesus. They of course would have to be innocent (free from moral wrong).


in·no·cent

1. free from moral wrong; without sin; pure.

Are we innocent? We lie, cheat, steal, murder, insult, abuse, hate, cheat, curse, gossip, slander, condescend, and blaspheme. By very nature, our parents have to teach us not to be evil, for that is our natural course. We were not born innocent and then victimized by the corruption of society. Therefore, we are evil. We are then corrupted by society and become even more evil. 

 

e·vil                                                                                             

8.the wicked or immoral part of someone or something.

Clearly, we are imperfect, not innocent: evil. So my question to you is this: How, why, would a perfect, just God die for us evil persons in order to forgive us our debts? That is beyond absurd. You and I, we do not deserve perfection. We choose evil instead of good every day. Yet, He died anyway, because He loves you.

Death is the course of nature. The rampant poison of imperfection is running through the veins of this earth. If humans lived forever, we would all be monsters. The worst notion of a loving God is blessing evil with immortality. Think of all the criminals in the world that are in prison, or have passed away. Now, think of all the people who would commit those same crimes if they were not afraid. Instead of asking me, “Why would a loving God let people die?” you would ask, “How could a loving God let man live forever?”

We would all take advantage of such power. It would corrupt us all. Governments would cease; guns would be useless. You would not be able to die, and you would live in fear of being captured and tortured every day for eternity. Of course, such conditions are barely imaginable, but I suspect that if every criminal that ever walked this earth were alive today, then such would be the case. Instead of allowing this earth to continue in such a way, he limits our lives and dies for us so that we could live. In this way, the evil will perish and the repentant will live forever. How, why would a perfect, just, loving, holy, merciful God do such a wonderful thing?

Jesus Christ. He came to this earth and lived a perfect life, yet He was tortured and killed for claiming to be the very One that He is: God. He then rose from the dead to prove to the world that He truly is God, and He sent those who witnessed this to share what He had done to the world. You have asked me how God could let innocent people die. Yet, I tell you He lets us live, and He died for us in our place. He has always loved you, and He always will. I hope you realize this soon.

But he was pierced for our rebellion,
    crushed for our sins.
He was beaten so we could be whole.
    He was whipped so we could be healed.
All of us, like sheep, have strayed away.

    We have left God’s paths to follow our own.
Yet the Lord laid on him
    the sins of us all.Isaiah 53:5-6


I truly hope you have read this with an open mind. Please consider what I have said. I do not wish to fight or argue. Life is hard, and I just want to help you. Please let me know if you have a reply, question, or anything you’d like to share with me. You have my prayers.

God bless and much love

Samuel Assaf

Anonymous asked: Is smoking cigs/weed a stumbling block to getting closer with Christ and/or interrupt with the dwelling of the holy spirit?

I appreciate your question!

Both are a distraction away from Christ. Here’s how:

You smoke weed/cigs in order to get your high. They relax you. They make you feel good. Then, you’re stressed out about something, so you smoke to relax. Then, you become psychologically addicted. You depend less on Jesus and more on feeling good to get rid of the pain. Only there is one problem. There is not a single drug that will take away the pain. It is just a distraction. So you start doing it more and more because it makes you forget some of the pain. Jesus slowly becomes smaller and less important. You’re still stressed out, and no matter how much you smoke, that won’t change. Anything can be psychologically addicting, but drugs are highly more addicting because they mess directly with your mind and body.

Or you might ask if it is still wrong if it is for fun. But then I will have to return the question in this way: You’re setting these things on fire and breathing it into your body. When this happens, it alters your state of mind and unsobers you. You’re not using your body to glorify God any more. You are using your body to satisfy what your body wants. 

This is a great question for you to ask! Although, there is a much more important and personal question that I want you to ask instead:

How can I get closer to Jesus, and is smoking distracting me? If the answer is yes, then by all means stop. If the answer is “I don’t know,” then by all means stop. Yet, if the answer is no, let’s see how long that will last.

I wrote another post about this with a more Scripture-based argument. Feel free to add in “cigarettes” whenever the word marijuana pops up. Here it is: 
http://amartyrschallenge.tumblr.com/post/23941913901/christians-and-weed

Just remember to search your heart and see what is the wisest decision you can make! Something doesn’t have to be sin in order for it to be unwise. As Pastor Mark Driscoll used to say: “Some things are not sin, they’re just stupid. It’s not a sin to eat a lawn mower, it’s just stupid!” 

So just really ask yourself this: Is this wise or unwise? Find out exactly why you want to smoke and if you should really be focusing those desires on Jesus. Because if you find yourself wanting to smoke instead of going to Jesus, you are going to be in deep waters.

28 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” - Matthew 10:28-30

Jesus said that, not drugs. 

I hope I was of help! Please message me again if you disagree, have something to add, or if you want to ask another question! I appreciate it, and I’m praying for you!

God bless and much love!

Samuel Assaf 

A little long-distance relationship advice

I answered:

Well, I would say that there are ups and downs to long distance relationships, but before I get into that, I should first lay out what dating is actually for. For the sake of smooth grammar, I am going to assume that you are a man, so if you are a woman, please still apply what I say to you.

Dating only ends in either marriage or breaking up. So you should probably aim for marriage instead of breaking your heart or someone else’s. 

 Having said that, you shouldn’t be looking for a girlfriend, you should be looking for a wife. You should find someone with the qualities of a Biblical, Godly woman and then date them to find out if they would make a good wife or not. If you don’t know what a Biblical, Godly husband/wife looks like, message me again and I will provide you with material that will help you understand which qualities you need to develop, and which qualities you will need to find in your spouse.

Now that we have gotten the general statement of a dating relationship out of the way, we can now discuss long distance relationships.

Here are some pros and cons when it comes to long distance relationships:

Pros:

  • Getting to know the person at an increased rate because of communication without much fun dates.
  • Learning to sort through fights and problems without the ability to “Hug it out.”
  • Discovering how much you are willing to be with the person over time.
  • Being able to observe character traits that the person develops while you are away.

Cons:

  • Stress of distance.
  • Trust issues may develop
  • Person may find someone else
  • Jealousy may be quickly aroused
  • Lack of “fun” events
  • Communication barriers, as personal conversations must be done on skype or on the phone

So these are just a few that I can name from the top of my head. It really depends on who you are, who the other person is, and if the relationship is worth it or not. Don’t trick yourself into thinking that you’re stuck in the relationship and you have no choice but to marry the person. Get to know the person, understand why you are struggling so much, and for goodness’ sakes, talk about it with your long-distance partner.

Communication is the most important key in marriage, or in any sort of relationship for that matter. So this is a great time and experience to learn how to communicate with your girlfriend, and also to learn how to communicate with your friends, family, and God-willing, your wife. 

Perhaps you’re not even in the season for looking for a spouse. You should take time to reflect and pray, and look into what is required of you as a spouse, before you look for one. I can provide you with material, if you find yourself lacking knowledge in this area.

I hope I was of help! Always remember that there is more to life than finding a spouse, and you have your whole life to figure that out. Focus on Christ, and grow with Him as you continue to sort these things out, or strive to fight the struggles of your long-distance relationship. Remember that you don’t need to decide who you will marry today or tomorrow. Just take your time, get to know the person, see what you need, and maybe one day you will find out that this person would be beneficial as a wife, or just simply not for you. Always pray, and be teachable and open minded.

God bless and much love!

Samuel Assaf 

Dating only ends in one of two ways..

Anonymous said: 1/3 My boyfriend and I… Well things have changed a lot recently. We dated all of last year, then he moved away to hockey school. We completely broke off and I missed him to an extent I can’t even explain. He came back at the beginning of the summer and we hung out once.. Things just came together and we’ve been dating since.. But like I said, things have changed. He’s not Christian. And since he came back.. Oh look he’s a teenage boy with physical desires that I wasn’t prepared for.

2/3 Things weren’t like this before he left. I’ve gone a lot further than I had planned on. This wasn’t entirely his fault, like he didn’t force me, I gave in to temptation. I see now that I shouldn’t have. I feel like he now has expectations and I’m not comfortable with it. As I said before, he’s not Christian. Christ plays a big role in my life and before I just thought I’d work with it and try my best to show him how the Lord has been working in my life.

3/3 I don’t really think he’s open to it though. So it’s not just the spiritual issue anymore, it’s the physical too. I need advice, I don’t know what to do, although I feel like I really should just break up with him. Thank you in advance. <3

I said:

Thank you for coming to me with your problem! I’m sorry to hear that you are in such a predicament, but I think there is something that you need to do, and I think you know it as well.

I think that the best thing you could do is to break up with him. You want a husband who is a Christian, yes? You want a husband that you know is going to lead you closer to Christ, not away from Him. Even if you did not cross sexual boundaries, I would still give you the same advice.

Dating can only end in one or two ways: it is either marriage or a break up. So you should be dating to win, not to lose! And currently, I think you know that you are losing. You are not with a wonderful man of God. You are with someone who isn’t a Christian, and this is dragging you down and distressing you. I don’t know this guy, but he could be the nicest and most respectful man on the earth, and yet he still can’t give you what you need, because what you need is spiritual:

14 Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness? 15 What harmony is there between Christ and Belial? What does a believer have in common with an unbeliever? 16 What agreement is there between the temple of God and idols? For we are the temple of the living God. As God has said: “I will live with them and walk among them, and I will be their God, and they will be my people.”

17 “Therefore come out from them 
    and be separate,
says the Lord.
Touch no unclean thing,
    and I will receive you.” 
18 “I will be a Father to you,
    and you will be my sons and daughters, 
says the Lord Almighty.
- 2 Corinthians 6:14-18

Having said that, I think you know what you should do. IF you think you are ready for a relationship, then stop looking for a boyfriend, and start looking for a husband. Your search will be a lot simple that way. Date to win, not to lose. I know that you must be in a very hard situation, because I’m guessing that you don’t want to hurt him and you love him. So I want you to pray and think about this and then decide on what you think God wants you to do.

I know that I have sounded very clear and precise, and I hope that has not been taken in a condescending or harsh way! When it comes to relationships, I need to be very to-the-point because a lot of emotion is usually involved. So to help you see clearly through this situation, I cannot beat around the bush. Just know that this was said with all good intentions, and I hope that you will have the strength to work through this situation and be able to wisely choose which direction you need to take!

God bless and much love!

Samuel Assaf

Comfortable Christians

vangizzy asked:

Hi. I’m still quite young, and I am.. a christian, But this question was brought up and it kind of stuck to me. “If you are comfortable where you are at, maybe the satan has you right where he wants you?” What do you think about this rhetorical question? Thanks:)

I said:

Thank you for your question! It’s quite a common phrase used in most Christian circles. It’s not a quote from the Bible, but I think it does hold a certain amount of truth. I think it can also be misconstrued.

There’s nothing wrong with being comfortable. Sometimes life just goes great. However, I think Satan traps us when we start thinking that we deserve to be comfortable:

Then Jesus was led up by the Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted by the devil. And after fasting forty days and forty nights, he was hungry. And the tempter came and said to him, “If you are the Son of God, command these stones to become loaves of bread.”Matthew 4:1-3

So Jesus is fasting, and Satan comes along and tells Him that He should eat. Jesus could have said “Wow, I am so hungry. I should eat.” But instead, Jesus refuses to give into the temptation. In the same way, I feel as though Satan can come to us and try to convince us that we can take a break from God. He tries to convince us that it’s okay to just get comfortable and not try so hard.

Christianity itself isn’t comfortable; it challenges us to strive for a standard much higher than what we have to offer:

And calling the crowd to him with his disciples, he said to them, “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me. For whoever would save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake and the gospel’s will save it. For what does it profit a man to gain the whole world and forfeit his soul? For what can a man give in return for his soul? For whoever is ashamed of me and of my words in this adulterous and sinful generation, of him will the Son of Man also be ashamed when he comes in the glory of his Father with the holy angels.”Mark 8:34-38

The verdict:

Is your life comfortable because you’re going through a season of joy, or are you comfortable because you don’t want to deny yourself, take up your cross, and follow Christ every day?

Sometimes, life is great and comfortable no matter how hard we fight for the Gospel. Most of the time, it is really hard. Let us fight in this world, and rest in Heaven. Let us not desire comfort, but instead let our deepest desire be for the lost souls of this world.

God bless and much love

Samuel Assaf

When Porn Attacks.

Anonymous said: Hey Samuel. Ive been a christian for a couple years now. I live my life in God’s name every chance i get. Ive preached at church, I’m a leader figure in my youth group. I love God, and I want nothing more than to show others of my faith. I do that a lot, i talk of my faith to others so much, and I’m in love with my faith so much. I feel like such a failure though. I’ve been battling a pornography addiction for almost 3 years, and idk what i have to do to cut it out. how i can i battle temptation


I said:

My friend, I am proud to hear that you are sharing the Gospel. Keep up the good fight of faith!

First of all, you cannot be superhuman and never sin. You know Paul? That really awesome dude that always preached and went to prison for it and got beaten and tortured and persecuted? Yeah, he was full of sin. Look at this:

14 So the trouble is not with the law, for it is spiritual and good. The trouble is with me, for I am all too human, a slave to sin. 15 I don’t really understand myself, for I want to do what is right, but I don’t do it. Instead, I do what I hate.16 But if I know that what I am doing is wrong, this shows that I agree that the law is good. 17 So I am not the one doing wrong; it is sin living in me that does it.

18 And I know that nothing good lives in me, that is, in my sinful nature.[d] I want to do what is right, but I can’t. 19 I want to do what is good, but I don’t. I don’t want to do what is wrong, but I do it anyway. 20 But if I do what I don’t want to do, I am not really the one doing wrong; it is sin living in me that does it.

21 I have discovered this principle of life—that when I want to do what is right, I inevitably do what is wrong. 22 I love God’s law with all my heart. 23 But there is another power[e] within me that is at war with my mind. This power makes me a slave to the sin that is still within me. 24 Oh, what a miserable person I am! Who will free me from this life that is dominated by sin and death? 25 Thank God! The answer is in Jesus Christ our Lord. So you see how it is: In my mind I really want to obey God’s law, but because of my sinful nature I am a slave to sin.- Romans 7:14-25 (NLT)


So, my friend, you beat yourself up because you hate sin just like God does! You’re battling your sinful ways because you are a sinner, and you will always be until you die.

However, there is something that must be brought to light. Addiction tends to elevate things in our lives above God, which is idolatry. You’re worshipping your flesh instead of God when you continually give in to your temptations. Allow me to prove this to you:

No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it.- 1 Corinthians 10:13

This tells us two things. One, sin is your choice. This addiction of yours can be broken if you tried. And second of all, God has given you the means of escape! Yes, it won’t be easy, but you can overcome it!

So here’s how you overcome this type of addiction. It comes from your desire to fulfill your physical and/or emotional needs. Perhaps you just lust all the time and you like looking at naked women. Or perhaps you are really stressed out about something and it makes you relax. Perhaps this is your way of being loved. Whatever it is, it is not okay. But first of all, don’t stay on your computer so long. Don’t just sit there on Facebook and keep pressing the refresh button! Get out of there man! Boredom always makes a man lust. Secondly, set yourself with real boundaries! Don’t try not to watch porn, try not to lust! If you don’t lust, you won’t watch porn! Look at what James says:

Temptation comes from our own desires, which entice us and drag us away. 15 These desires give birth to sinful actions. And when sin is allowed to grow, it gives birth to death.James 1:14-15 (NLT)

Do you want to be free from this sin? Do you WANT to be free from this sin? Then you have to cut it off from where it starts! You must fight the root of it: lust. It will take a while, and it won’t be easy. But if you never give up and always persevere, you will overcome!

Now, allow me to speak in terms of every addiction. You have to put God first, because you’re not putting Him first. You keep choosing to serve your flesh instead of God! So just start to be more Christ-centered. When the temptation to lust comes, don’t just try resisting it on your own. Don’t you get it? You can’t do this! You can’t! That is why you need Jesus! Jesus will get you through my friend! The secret is Jesus! Check this out:

Finally, be strong in the Lord and in the strength of his might.
 11 Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the schemes of the devil… Therefore take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand firm.- Ephesians 6:10-11,13 (ESV)

You have to be strong in God. You have to stay focused on Him. Please, do yourself a favor and read and study the whole chapter of Ephesians 6. That chapter will tell you what you need to do.

Listen: The key to defeating sin is not battling the sin; it is focusing on Jesus! Let Christ defeat your sin! Understand this: only Christ has the power to defeat your sinful nature. Do you understand? You have to start praying, worshipping, and reading your Bible more. Make more of a conscious effort to serve Him every day. That’s how you defeat sin! Because the closer you get to Christ, the further you get from sin.

It won’t be easy, and it could take a while, but if you really try, you will never even watch it again! You can do this, the Bible says you can! Have faith in your God, for He will give you strength! Keep fighting the good fight of faith. I’m proud of you.

Let me know if I can help you more!

God bless and much love

Samuel Assaf

A Muslim Student Challenges Ravi Zacharias



Homosexuality.

Anonymous said: Why are you against homosexuality? You do realize, don’t you, that homosexuality isn’t a choice & it can’t be changed, which means that being against homosexuality is like being against a person’s skin color or ethnicity, which are both also unchangeable & innate. I’m sure you think it’s hateful to be racist or xenophobic, so why do you think it’s somehow not hateful to be against homosexuality? (Oh, and I myself am bisexual, so I can tell you for a fact that I did not choose to be this way.)

Also, have you ever actually studied the history and context of all of the supposed “anti-gay” Bible verses? Heck, have you ever even read those verses in the original Greek and Aramaic (before they were translated a million times), and do you know what the words “arsenokoitai” and “malakoi” mean? Or do you just take those verses at face value, even though that just gives you an incredibly shallow interpretation of them?




I said:

Actually, you have been severely deceived because I know quite a few examples of people who are no longer homosexuals. One’s identity is sacred, to be sure. But a preference is not sacred. I like pizza, I cannot help liking pizza. That is my preference. Does that mean I have to eat pizza? No. You like homosexuality. Does that mean you have to practice homosexuality? No. Just because you think that you were born gay, it does not mean that you have to practice that. Also, there is no sound scientific evidence that proves that sexual preference is genetic. It is usually caused by life experiences and the environment. It’s very complicated. But I’ll give you the benefit of the doubt. Let’s say that you were born with a proclivity towards same-sex relations. That proves nothing. Others desire to lie, murder, cheat, steal, be angry, violent, or lust. Just because a lot of people say, “I was born this way.” It doesn’t make it okay. Being black or white isn’t a choice. However, you can choose who you have sex with.

Furthermore, by admitting that you are born with a strong desire for homosexuality, you are actually supporting the Biblical grounds of the sinful nature of man. The Bible does not teach that we are born perfect and then mess things up later on, it teaches that we are born imperfect. You and everyone else have had a desire to sin since birth. There are plenty of people who believe that lying Is okay. The Bible says it’s a sin. There are people who think swearing is okay. The Bible says it is a sin. Just because you think that homosexuality is okay, doesn’t make it permissible.


Please watch this short video for a very good explanation:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=CIw6ngIqaD0

As for what the Bible says about homosexuality, I have done a video to cover the topic. It is 30 minutes long, which really isn’t that long when you think about it. It includes all the notes you need. Here is the link:

http://amartyrschallenge.tumblr.com/post/21124953887/does-the-bible-accept-or-deny-homosexuality-and

Let me know if you have any more questions or arguments.

God bless and much love!

Samuel Assaf 

Steps to Overcoming Sin.

Anonymous asked: I’m a Christian who struggles with his sexuality everyday—it’s really tough. With the mix messages culture & society tell me (us) everyday, I’m thankful for the word & for all people who believe in the accurate gospel. Some days I find myself really plotting an experimentation with the same-sex, I’m afraid of myself sometimes. I have deep remorse and am profoundly apologetic for the way my mind is. Although, I’m haunted… I’m trying to allow God to transform me. Any insight or words on this?



I said:

Thank you so much for opening up to me. You seem to be really going through a hard time with this. 


I noticed two key things from what you said: You are fighting your sin nature, and you are trying to allow God to transform you.

Your sin nature

This is what Apostle Paul had to say about struggling with the sin nature in the Scripture:

I have discovered this principle of life—that when I want to do what is right, I inevitably do what is wrong. 22 I love God’s law with all my heart. 23 But there is another power within me that is at war with my mind. This power makes me a slave to the sin that is still within me. 24 Oh, what a miserable person I am! Who will free me from this life that is dominated by sin and death? 25 Thank God! The answer is in Jesus Christ our Lord. So you see how it is: In my mind I really want to obey God’s law, but because of my sinful nature I am a slave to sin.Romans 7:21-25 (NLT)

 

My friend, you cannot be free from sin. You are it’s slave. You cannot do it. That is why you need Jesus! He is strong enough to pull you through whatever you are going through. He is strong enough to get you through this! Look at this Scripture:

No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.1 Corinthians 10:13 (ESV)


Hope is not lost!
God has made your escape! The choice is yours: Will you continue in your sinful, selfish ways as you crawl your way to death? Or will you rely on Jesus to help you fight your way through every single battle to eternal life? The choice is yours.

Hallelujah my friend! You have a choice! Rejoice in the mighty power of God, and trust in Him for your repentance. Remember those Scripture verses my friend. The answer is Christ, and He has prepared a way for you to escape your temptation!


God transforming you

 

And so, dear brothers and sisters, I plead with you to give your bodies to God because of all he has done for you. Let them be a living and holy sacrifice—the kind he will find acceptable. This is truly the way to worship him. Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect. Romans 12:1-2 (NLT)


The first verse pleads you to offer your BODY as a living and holy sacrifice. This means that with whatever you do, let it holy and pleasing to God. Whatever choice you make is a choice to either worship God or curse Him.

The second verse explains it further by saying to refuse to listen to the culture, but instead allow God to transform your thinking. Instead of thinking about your sin, think about Jesus. When you are tempted you should pray, read your Bible, or just escape out of that situation. For super effectiveness, you should probably do all three. Make sense?

Put yourself under good teaching, become accountable with a strong Christian friend (with everything, not just sin.), pray unceasingly, and study the Word of God. Allow Him to change the way you think.


My friend, thank God for the grace that you have found in Jesus. Never stop looking to Him. Our relationship with God is not about abstaining from sin, it is about getting close to Him. The minute you take your eyes off of Him, you will sin. But if you always keep your focus on Jesus, you will never fail.


The closer you get to Christ, the further you’ll get from sin.


I hope I was of help. Please do not hesitate to reply, or to ask any other questions you may have.

God bless and much love!

Samuel Assaf

Violence, Family, Pride, and Christian Hypocrites.


Anonymous asked:

religion, in many ways has caused more harm than good to people, it has started many wars and taken many lives, it can destroy familys, christians especially think they know everything and put themselves higher than everyone like they are better, and dont say no because you know its true so my question to you is why do you belive in it so much



Notes in response:




Violence and vengeance:

Matthew 5:38-42
 “You have heard that it was said, ‘An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.’ 39 But I say to you, Do not resist the one who is evil. But if anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also. 40 And if anyone would sue you and take your tunic,[h] let him have your cloak as well. 41 And if anyone forces you to go one mile, go with him two miles. 42  Give to the one who begs from you, and do not refuse the one who would borrow from you.

Matthew 5:42-44
43  “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ 44 But I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.



Family:

Ephesians 5:22-24
Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands.


Ephesians 5:25

Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.


Ephesians 5:28-30
In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 
29 For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church, 30 because we are members of his body.


Ephesians 6:1
Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right.

Ephesians 6:4
Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.



Pride:

Matthew 7:1-5
Do not judge, or you too will be judged. 2 For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.

   3 “Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?4 How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? 5 You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.



Luke 16:9-14
He also told this parable to some who trusted in themselves that they were righteous, and treated others with contempt: 10 “Two men went up into the temple to pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector. 11 The Pharisee,standing by himself, prayed thus: ‘God, I thank you that I am not like other men, extortioners, unjust, adulterers, or even like this tax collector. 12  I fast twice a week; I give tithes of all that I get.’ 13 But the tax collector, standing far off, would not even lift up his eyes to heaven, but beat his breast, saying, ‘God, be merciful to me, a sinner!’ 14 I tell you, this man went down to his house justified, rather than the other. For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, but the one who humbles himself will be exalted.”


So these Christians who you claim are being violent, destroying families, and being proud are actually in sin.

Look at the values of Christianity and measure it against the Christians.


John 14:16
“If you love me, you will keep my commandments.”

Doesn’t mean Christians are close to perfect, but you can definitely see the intentions of someone who is truly trying to follow Jesus.

Does the Bible accept or deny homosexuality? And why is it wrong?


PART 1: Does the Bible accept or deny homosexuality?

Leviticus 18:22
You shall not lie with a male as with a woman; it is an abomination. 

Leviticus 18:24-30
“Do not make yourselves unclean by any of these things, for by all these the nations I am driving out before you have become unclean, 25 and the land became unclean, so that I punished its iniquity, and the land vomited out its inhabitants. 26 But you shall keep my statutes and my rules and do none of these abominations, either the native or the stranger who sojourns among you 27 (for the people of the land, who were before you, did all of these abominations, so that the land became unclean), 28 lest the land vomit you out when you make it unclean, as it vomited out the nation that was before you. 29 For everyone who does any of these abominations, the persons who do them shall be cut off from among their people. 30  So keep my charge never to practice any of these abominable customs that were practiced before you, and never to make yourselves unclean by them: I am the Lord your God.”



Leviticus 20:13
If a man lies with a male as with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination; they shall surely be put to death; their blood is upon them.

Leviticus 20:23
 
And you shall not walk in the customs of the nation that I am driving out before you, for they did all these things, and therefore I detested them

Matthew 19:4-6
He answered, “Have you not read that he who created them from the beginning made them male and female, and said,‘Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’?So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.”

Romans 1:26-27
26 For this reason God gave them up to dishonorable passions. For their women exchanged natural relations for those that are contrary to nature; 27 and the men likewise gave up natural relations with women and were consumed with passion for one another, men committing shameless acts with men and receiving in themselves the due penalty for their error.

The Greek word for nature in this passage is phusikos, which means nature, or animal-like.

http://concordances.org/strongs/greek/5446.htm

5446. phusikos

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phusikos: natural, according to nature

Original Word: φυσικός, ή, όν
Part of Speech: Adjective
Transliteration: phusikos
Phonetic Spelling: (foo-see-kos’)
Short Definition: natural, according to nature
Definition: natural, (a) according to nature, (b) merely animal.




1 Corinthians 6:9-11

Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men 10 nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God.

http://concordances.org/strongs/greek/733.htm

733. arsenokoites

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arsenokoites: a male engaging in same-gender sexual activity

Original Word: ἀρσενοκοίτης, ου, ὁ
Part of Speech: Noun, Masculine
Transliteration: arsenokoites
Phonetic Spelling: (ar-sen-ok-oy’-tace)
Short Definition: a male engaging in same-gender sexual activity
Definition: a male engaging in same-gender sexual activity; a sodomite, pederast.


http://concordances.org/strongs/greek/730.htm

730. arrén

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arrén: male, man.

Original Word: ἄρσην, ενος, εν
Part of Speech: Adjective
Transliteration: arrén
Phonetic Spelling: (ar’-hrane)
Short Definition: male
Definition: male.




http://concordances.org/strongs/greek/2845.htm

2845. koité

2846 »


koité: a bed

Original Word: κοίτη, ης, ἡ
Part of Speech: Noun, Feminine
Transliteration: koité
Phonetic Spelling: (koy’-tay)
Short Definition: a bed, marriage bed
Definition: (a) a bed, (b) a marriage bed; plur: repeated (immoral) sexual intercourse.




If you disagree on the translations in this verse, you still have to deal with Leviticus 18 and 20, Romans 1, the words of Jesus in Matthew  19, and now this:


Titus 1:6
An elder must be blameless, the husband of but one wife, a man whose children believe and are not open to the charge of being wild and disobedient.

1 Timothy 3:2
Therefore an overseer must be above reproach, the husband of one wife, sober-minded, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach,

Matthew 19:4-6
He answered, “Have you not read that he who created them from the beginning made them male and female, and said,‘Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’?So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.”


Does the Bible ever say that homosexuality is okay? No. Not once. Besides having to deal with that, the Bible states several times that homosexuality is a sin.

Having said all of this, I must now submit to you Romans 1.

Romans 1: 18-20
For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who by their unrighteousness suppress the truth. 19 For what can be known about God is plain to them, because God has shown it to them. 20 For his invisible attributes, namely, his eternal power and divine nature, have been clearly perceived, ever since the creation of the world, in the things that have been made. So they are without excuse.


PART 2: Why is homosexuality wrong?

We are all inclined to sin in one way or another. It does not mean we should act on them. If you are attracted to the same gender, I would encourage you to resist that temptation as an act of repentance to God.

Ravi Zacharias on homosexuality:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=CIw6ngIqaD0



Francis Chan on Marriage:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y3YNawuuizM

Ephesians 5:25-33
Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, 26 that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, 27 so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish.[a] 28 In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church, 30 because we are members of his body. 31 “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.”32 This mystery is profound, and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church. 33 However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.


Matthew 19:4-6
He answered, “Have you not read that he who created them from the beginning made them male and female, and said,‘Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’?So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.”



PART 3: Jesus.


John 3:16
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life. 

Homosexuality.

hi. so I saw in your description it says: And remember, whoever you are..I love you. but I also noticed that your last post slams homosexuality. I’m a seventeen year old girl and I like girls. I go to church and I love god as much as you do, do you love me still ?
 Anonymous



Does it slam homosexuals? Because I said that homosexuality is sinful and that they need Jesus?

I also said that I am sinful and everyone else is sinful, and that we all need Jesus. 

So did I slam homosexuals? No. I simply think what they are doing is sinful. I also think that drunkards and bullies and liars and cheaters and thieves and people who lust are sinful. Do I love them? Yes. I love homosexuals, and I do not bully them.

So, yes, I do love you. 

And because I love you and the homosexual community, I need to tell you that God doesn’t approve of what you are doing, and He loves you so much that He sent His Son, Jesus Christ, to die for all your sins, which includes homosexuality. There are many sins that a person commits besides homosexuality. I will not be brought to bullying anyone for their sins. I am a sinner as well. I need Jesus just as much as everyone else. I am no higher than anyone else.

Have I made myself clear? I hope this misunderstanding has been cleared up.


So you’re a lesbian, and you go to church and claim to love God just as much as I do. So how much do I love God? Could you tell me that?

“Because of the privilege and authority God has given me, I give each of you this warning: Don’t think you are better than you really are. Be honest in your evaluation of yourselves, measuring yourselves by the faith God has given us.” - Romans 12:3

So measure yourself. You can’t measure my faith because you do not know my heart, only God and I know my heart. In the same way, I cannot measure your faith. Only my own. However, Scripture does teach that if you truly love God and are truly after Jesus Christ, you will repent from sin.

“If you love me, you will obey what I command.” - John 14:15

Now, I realize that you probably don’t believe that homosexuality is sin, so how do you deal with Scriptures that speak out against the act of homosexuality?

 ”Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God.” - 1 Corinthians 6:9-10

 ”Do not lie with a man as one lies with a woman; that is detestable. - Leviticus 18:22

 ”Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural relations for unnatural ones. In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed indecent acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their perversion.” - Romans 1:26-27


 
For further information, you may refer to this link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cSGIPqXhofE 

Please notice in 1 Corinthians 6:9-10, that there are many more sinful things listed besides homosexuality. Homosexuality is one kind of sin. It is not the one sin that gets you sent to Hell. Any sin gets you sent to Hell. I have sympathy towards the homosexual community because of how awfully some Christians have treated you. They have been hypocritical, and have condemned you rather than loved you. I think it’s important for Christians to teach the Bible and to teach that all sin is wrong, and to not single anyone out. We are all sinners. We are all in the same boat.

Now, having said all of this, it is important to know that although God condemns homosexuality, He still loves you and He still died for you. God condemns drunkenness, adultery, fornication, lying, stealing, cheating, and any other rebellion against the righteousness and purity of God. Homosexuality is one sin among many others, and it is a shame that it is constantly highlighted. God loves you, and He died for you so that you may know true life in Him. 

“For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” - John 3:16

So I am praying earnestly for you. Please think about this open mindedly and do some serious praying about it. I love you and do not think otherwise just because I think that you are wrong. You have many friends who you disagree with, yet you love them anyway. Please understand.

God bless and much love.

Samuel Assaf 

Understanding Scripture.

Anonymous asked:

Colossians 3 1 Since, then, you have been raised with Christ, set your hearts on things above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. 2 Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things. 3 For you died, and your life is now hidden with Christ in God. 4 When Christ, who is your life, appears, then you also will appear with him in glory. WHAT DOES THIS MEAN?




I said:

I’m actually impressed that you looked at those verses and thought about what was actually being said. A number of Christians today just pass over those verses because they’ve heard those things so much. But you want to grasp the true meaning, so I commend you for that.


As is indicated with verses 5-10, Paul is simply saying this: Since now Jesus has given you a new heart, stop focusing on your flesh, but start focusing on God. Stop focusing on earthly things. You died to your sinful nature when you believed in Jesus, and now your life belongs to Jesus. When Christ comes back in the Second Coming, you will be with Him.

Now, this would be confusing unless you read verses 5-10. Also, it is a continuation of chapter 2 which talks about being free in Christ by living by His rules and not human regulations. Chapter 2 talks about this from chapter 2 verse 6 all the way up to chapter 3 verse 17.

Here’s some encouragement for when you are struggling to understand the Bible:

Chapters and verses were added into the Bible only a few hundred years ago. Why was this done? So people could make references. Just like now, you wanted to understand it more so you showed me the Scripture reference so I could look it up and explain. There is nothing wrong with that. However, Paul wrote Colossians (and many others) as letters. Meaning you have to read from the beginning of the letter to understand what he’s talking about in chapter 3. You have to do this with any book of the Bible. You never start reading in the middle of a book, so you should never just read the middle of a book of the Bible without understanding the beginning! Of course, I’m not suggesting that you are or are not reading out of context, I’m just giving you a helpful tip!  

I hope this helped, let me know if you have any more questions regarding this or anything else!

God bless and much love!

Samuel Assaf

I’ve always admired the bravery and sheer honesty of Daniel’s 3 friends and their event with the burning furnace.

16 Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego replied to him, “King Nebuchadnezzar, we do not need to defend ourselves before you in this matter. 17 If we are thrown into the blazing furnace, the God we serve is able to deliver us from it, and he will deliver us from Your Majesty’s hand. 18 But even if he does not, we want you to know, Your Majesty, that we will not serve your gods or worship the image of gold you have set up.” - Daniel 3:16-18


So basically, there are these three guys who are threatened with being burnt alive unless they commit idolatry and worship other gods that are not the true God.

So what do they declare?
They declare that they will bow down to no man and no false god,and that their God is alive, and able to deliver them from the very flames that can take their lives.

But then they add something very strange and unseen in today’s Christian culture. 

They declare that even if their God does not save them, they will still honor Him anyway.

So I have a question for all you Christians out there.

If you go through suffering and persecution, are you willing to love God even if He doesn’t save you?

Do you need health, wealth, friends, a job, a certain achievement, or anything else to honor and love God?

Or is God enough?