What’s a gentleman? What’s a lady?
It surprises me how far this culture has fallen from respecting men and self-respecting women.
What ever happened to men who would put their jackets on puddles so the women could walk across? What ever happened to women who would slap a man who tried to advance on her?
Chivalry may be dead, but modesty is too. And they play off of each other. Men don’t respect women because women don’t respect themselves, and women don’t respect themselves because men don’t respect them!
But I say enough is enough. Men, you may not have been raised to respect a woman, but it is mandatory that you do. You do not objectify her. You do not treat her in a disrespectful way. You don’t even think of her in a dishonorable way. There are a few good men out there that are tired of trying to put back together broken women.
Ladies, you may not have been raised to respect yourself, but it is mandatory that you do. I know that this culture will tell you otherwise, but you don’t need to wear a bikini at the beach. You don’t need to wear short skirts and short shorts that show off more than they should. You don’t need to help guys treat you like a piece of meat. You don’t need to wear revealing shirts. You know what you need? You need to cover up yourself, because you will not be respected if you don’t respect yourself. There is NOTHING more attractive than a self-respecting woman that is waiting for a chivalrous man who will honor her in every way. These means with his actions towards you, too. You’re probably all angry at me for saying this because I’m a guy. But please hear me out: you don’t know what I hear from other men who talk about the way your legs or chest or backside look. It’s disgusting. It makes me so furious. So respect yourself, because good men want to respect you. I’m begging you.
I am tired of hearing stories of women being led on, given disrespectful comments, or treated like meat. But I am also tired of the way some women dress, because it doesn’t make it easy for us men either. Before culture became severely corrupted, women wouldn’t wear bikinis and men wouldn’t even take their shirts off at the beach. Yeah, that may sound extreme but bikinis are just a few inches of cloth. That’s pretty extreme too.
Here is a video I want you to watch. It is a testimony of men and how hard it is to stay pure in this culture. Men, have this mindset and passion to stay pure and strive to respect women. Ladies, acknowledge how easily guys lust after you, and take steps to evaluate your clothing and decide what is modest.
What Guys Think About Modesty by C.J. Mahaney
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2n-NWbd3pis&feature=player_embedded
To all you gentlemen who are striving in this manner, thank you. To all you ladies who are striving to respect yourselves, thank you. Let us restore chivalry and modesty.
God bless and much love
Samuel Assaf
